short items to wear for older bride of the wedding

I need some advice! I found out that my baby had stopped growing at 6 weeks and I was 9 weeks pregnant. My first ultrasound went fine for my 6 week appointment (heart beating and everything) I had gone into the ER on August 29th and we could not see a heartbeat and the baby hadn't grown at all. The following day after the night at the ER it was confirmed that my baby had passed away. I had a D&C done on September 1st which tore my heart into pieces. We are still wanting to try again and just want to know how long it took you guys to conceive again? I'm scared to death for my next pregnancy cause I don't want to loss another baby but want to still have hope for a successful pregnancy someday! short items to wear for older bride of the wedding